i really need to update this more

we had eli's second birthday over memorial weekend. don't have pictures yet but it was fun. he was puking from both ends on his actual birthday poor guy. we went home to put flowers on matthew's grave and it was a refreshing road trip. we are headed back that way again this weekend. the kids and i are going to be staying there for the week and holger is coming back to work then he will come next friday and we will head to utah for his brothers wedding the following thursday! we are going to be staying with my sister and going to the zoo and having tons and tons of fun. i really want to go to ikea but i don't know if we should spend the money on gas to go down to it. we will see how we feel when we get there.

it's going to be a busy two weeks and then we will have my sister heather and my little brother's birthday party the weekend after we get home! lots and lots of traveling.